People write me often on Tumblr for advice. I don’t normally share them elsewhere, but I thought this one just needed to be posted as a warning. This type of thinking isn’t productive and is about your insecurity.
i like this guy and really always try to get his attention, like i come up close to him and talk to him, laugh with him blabla, but he seems to always ignore me, like either he goes away when im there or never makes direct eye contact yet has no problem with my other friends, is something wrong with me?
Is there something wrong with you? Well my best guess with such limited information is yes – You seem to think this guy should behave as you want him to instead of seeing him as an autonomous human free to make decisions.
Look, if you have given someone all the clues you wish to give them that you are attracted to them then you have a couple of choices left to you. You can either tell them straight out you like them or you can move the hell on with your life and assume he is not interested.
I am not sure on what planet him not being interested in you or not understanding you are interested in him has ANYTHING to do with something being wrong with you. People can just not take hints, or they can not be interested in you for a million different reasons and not one of them have to be there is something wrong with you.
The bigger issue seems to be your self confidence or your self worth. I beg you to please watch or read the transcript of my Foundations Series Part 10 Self Worth here – https://triscelelife.com/category/foundations/